I had the peculiar experience of being patronised by someone whom I'm guessing was about half my age today.

After I went to the gym, I popped into the associated overpriced coffee franchise to grab some lunch to eat at my desk, because I had forgotten to make my lunch the previous evening.

I brought my items to the till and then remembered I'd forgotten my phone at home as well that morning, so I didn't have my loyalty app thingie.

The person behind the till rang up my items. "Excuse me, sorry, but I forgot my phone. If I get a receipt, can I claim my points later?"

Cashier, whose face had suddenly gone anime-eyed: "Awwww, you're American! Yes, of course you can, my darling."

Me, flustered: "Oh, okay, thank you."

*pause whilst I paid and cashier printed receipt*

Cashier, in a sing-song voice and with a gesture that looked as though it might end with a pat on the head: "Here you go, sweetheart."

Me: "Um, er, thank you?"

And then I ran out of there before she could offer me a lolly, as long as I promised to be a good girl for Mummy for the rest of the day.
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From: [personal profile] wohali


Just replying to say - amazing icon. What's the source/reference, if any?
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In Love Actually, it's Emma Thompson's character's reaction to her daughter's news about the nativity play:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/9chdp8izEtk
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I'm English but I live in the US and I've experienced this in reverse as well.

I think sometimes they're just so surprised to meet one of us "in the wild" that the friendliness/helpfulness gets really overblown.
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...that's the sort of thing I would have expected to run in reverse, with someone in the States so charmed by a UK accent that they went mushy-brained.
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Umm.. Sorry. British media seems to be filled with somewhat negative images of Americans giving one the impression they're all a bit... special. Nice but a bit lacking in the adult department you know.

It's entirely possible the Cashier was being a tad bit snarky.
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Did she pronounce the "h" in sweetheart? At least she didn't say "Bless your heart"
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Patronizing with a side of creepy. Even here in the South, where we call everyone "honey" and "darlin'", that would be a bit overboard.
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